How to strengthen relationships and minimise the risk of breakup using the Compatibility Matrix (1)

How to strengthen relationships and minimise the risk of breakup using the Compatibility Matrix

Love and relationships undoubtedly play a vital role in our lives. Human nature often clings tightly to what it values, especially when it comes to love. “You can’t run from fate, and love can’t be forced,” as the saying goes — so when someone leaves your life, it’s important to accept it with dignity. However, in this article, we’ll show you how to strengthen your relationship and minimise the chances of a breakup using the Destiny Compatibility Matrix.

1. How to strengthen your relationship: Calculate Compatibility Matrix

Start by calculating your compatibility matrix using our free calculator. Once you have the matrix in hand, pay close attention to the energy in the following position:

2. Interpret the energy and strengthen the relationship

This position cannot contain energies 1 or 2, so we begin our interpretations with the third Arcanum:

• Arcanum 3 – Empress: Let go of jealousy and oversensitivity, stop constantly demanding attention, and avoid over-caring behaviour that feels suffocating.
• Arcanum 4 – Emperor: Avoid trying to dominate the relationship. This desire often leads to conflict. Your partner may begin to resent your control and rigidity.
• Arcanum 5 – Hierophant: Stop lecturing or preaching. Respect your partner’s traditions and culture without imposing your beliefs. Commitment should be mutual and not rushed.
• Arcanum 6 – Lovers: Stop fearing love and never doubt your partner — but also don’t idealise them, or you risk being let down by your own illusions.
• Arcanum 7 – Chariot: Avoid destructive behaviours. Passion and mutual pursuit are vital — don’t let the fire go out.
• Arcanum 8 – Justice: Casual relationships are not suited to those with this energy. Both partners must take responsibility and work on building trust.
• Arcanum 9 – Hermit: Make your relationship more vibrant. Respect each other’s boundaries and strive for deep mutual understanding. A shared hobby or public activity can help.
• Arcanum 10 – Wheel of Fortune: This energy brings unpredictability, so it’s essential to maintain mutual trust. Avoid emotional drama and manipulation.
• Arcanum 11 – Strength: Stop pressuring each other. Aim for mutual understanding to improve all areas of your relationship, including intimacy. Continue growing as individuals to keep the spark alive.
• Arcanum 12 – Hanged Man: Don’t let the relationship stagnate. If you feel like a victim in love, start by loving yourself — then others will too.
• Arcanum 13 – Death: Don’t obsess over breakups or bring them up lightly. Embrace change and consider spontaneous trips or even moving in together.
• Arcanum 14 – Temperance: Partners may seem worlds apart. Never try to change each other forcefully. Instead, accept your partner’s flaws and maintain balance.
• Arcanum 15 – Devil: This energy often brings co-dependency, jealousy, and manipulation. Don’t criticise — support and uplift your partner instead.
• Arcanum 16 – Tower: One partner may be extremely stubborn, which can lead to frequent breakups. Remember: “Where there is love, there is no room for pride.”
• Arcanum 17 – Star: This couple must learn to express feelings. Before criticising, reflect on your own actions. Don’t undermine your partner’s efforts.
• Arcanum 18 – Moon: Avoid creating confusion in the relationship. Pass the test of trust — eliminate dishonesty, even over small things.
• Arcanum 19 – Sun: Your union should radiate optimism. Avoid selfishness and don’t focus excessively on material things — they aren’t the foundation of your love.
• Arcanum 20 – Judgement: Family members may try to interfere. Set firm boundaries. Work on yourself, make plans, and never try to change your partner to suit your ideals.
• Arcanum 21 – World: Respect your partner’s personal space and work on building trust. Put effort into evolving the relationship to the next level.
• Arcanum 22 – Fool: Accept that at some point, you must move beyond “living in the moment” and begin making serious plans. Don’t live in a fantasy.

To better understand how the compatibility matrix works, we recommend using our calculator and exploring the full interpretation for your unique combination.