Compatibility matrix: full description of the zones
We have already shared information about the Compatibility Matrix method in a good many articles, but in this one we’ve decided to gather absolutely everything and present a cheat sheet for the Compatibility Matrix. Would you like to understand the Compatibility Matrix perfectly, know the meaning of each Arcana within it, improve your own relationship or help others? Keep reading, and at the end we’ll even consolidate your newly acquired knowledge with an example analysis of a Compatibility Matrix!
- Character of the Couple
Let us begin with the central point in the Compatibility Matrix: the character of the couple:
The Arcana at this point describes the couple as a whole: how they behave, what the relationship represents and the degree of harmony between partners. This point will also be key in determining whether the Compatibility Matrix is in a negative or positive state. Moreover, if you begin to work on this energy, the relationship will immediately improve severalfold.
Across the internet there are countless opinions about the energy at the centre of the Compatibility Matrix with a partner, and many people even split the Arcana into “suitable” and “unsuitable” for a union. However, this is nonsense: all Arcana in the Compatibility Matrix, when in the positive, are capable of taking a relationship to a serious level and securing the bond in full mutual understanding through marriage.
- Why You Met
People come into and leave our lives for a reason. You meet each person for a purpose. In the Compatibility Matrix there is a point that indicates why you met your partner:
The Arcana along the Heaven Line shows what the person must come to understand in the union, while the Earth Line indicates what the union should lead to and what the partners will receive together in the material world.
- Manifestation of the Woman
The aspect of the woman’s manifestation in the relationship should be examined in the energies along the Female Line in the Compatibility Matrix. The energy above indicates how she behaves in the union, and the one below shows which aspects are missing in her character.
- Manifestation of the Man
Following on are the two Arcana along the Male Line. The Arcana at the top indicates the man’s behaviour, while the one at the bottom shows what his manifestation is lacking:
- The Higher Essence in the Compatibility Matrix: 3 Aspects
The Higher Essence in the Compatibility Matrix encompasses three aspects of the couple:
- What inspires your couple and can lead them out of crisis.
- How the couple will behave in everyday life.
- A possible reason for separation.
- Karmic Tail
No relationship is without conflicts (not even the smallest). But if they appear out of nowhere, you should examine the Karmic Tail in the Compatibility Matrix.
It is the Karmic Tail that indicates the source of problems in the couple and suggests the path to their resolution.
- Financial Aspects of the Union
Financial well-being is also of great importance in a relationship. In the Compatibility Matrix you can identify vulnerable points in joint financial implementation, as well as advise how to manage the budget and what the couple should do together regarding financial matters to multiply their money:
- Love Line: 2 Aspects
Along the Love Line in the Compatibility Matrix you can analyse two aspects:
What needs to be done to harmonise the couple and what the couple is lacking:
- Manifestation of the Couple, Parental Tasks
One zone remains in the Compatibility Matrix: the karma of child–parent relationships, but through it you can examine not only these aspects, but also:
- How society perceives the couple — what the couple projects to society.
- Your children.
- Your tasks as parents.
Example Analysis of the Compatibility Matrix
Now, having analysed each zone in the Compatibility Matrix, we suggest consolidating your knowledge by fully analysing the following matrix:
The analysis algorithm is as follows:
| Character of the Couple: | (15) The couple met in order to learn to respect and fulfil each other’s desires. They need to strive to live in luxury, eradicate dependencies and cease any form of violence, for only then will they be in complete mutual understanding, complementing one another. |
| Why You Met: | (6) The couple met to open themselves to love and not be afraid to show their feelings. In the union both partners must gain self-confidence and learn to see the beauty around them. (9) It is important to achieve financial stability, share knowledge with each other and maintain a steady exchange of information. |
| Manifestation of the Woman: | How she behaves: (21) The woman conducts herself with ease and naturalness. She exudes an aura of peace, calm, harmony and wisdom. Moreover, she can bring depth to the relationship. What is lacking: (12) The woman either places too much importance on the relationship, neglecting her own life, or is conversely too self-absorbed. She lacks the golden mean between personal space and offering assistance. |
| Manifestation of the Man: | How he behaves: (15) The man is very passionate towards his partner and constantly desires her. He endeavours to surround her with the very best and accustom her to luxury. Frequent visits to expensive restaurants, travels and lavish gifts are his hallmark. What is lacking: (9) He can be somewhat reserved and does not always express his feelings directly; at times he retreats into himself and fails to share his deeper emotions with his other half. |
| Higher Essence in the Compatibility Matrix: | What inspires the couple and can draw them out of crisis: (6) Lightness and ease, a state of euphoria as at the very beginning of the relationship. Demonstrating the value of the relationship and deep feelings gives each partner a second wind and the desire to stay together. Possible reason for separation: (9) Each partner withdraws into themselves, becomes detached and stops showing their love, which ultimately leads to a cooling of feelings. How the couple will behave in everyday life: (21) The pair get on well together; they often travel, change residence or live abroad. Domestic conflicts are not their concern. |
| Karmic Tail: | Sources of conflict may include: (18) fears, infidelity, betrayal. (21) Limiting beliefs within oneself, dependence on public opinion and fear of opening up to something new. (3) The man adopts the role of the woman and vice versa, causing the relationship to sink into mundane routine. |
| Financial Aspects of the Union: | Vulnerable points in joint financial implementation: (15) An excessive love of luxury, living extravagantly, spending the last of one’s money on life’s pleasures and on maintaining status. (18) Playing a double game with money, engaging in dishonest financial manoeuvres and spending on addictions. (3) The couple becomes too focused on domestic life, pouring money into home improvements and dining well. How to manage the budget: (21) Do not splurge money left, right and centre, yet avoid living in complete frugality. (6) Surround yourselves with beauty and strive for confidence in your financial situation. (3) Maintain a joint budget and allocate it wisely for a comfortable life. What to do together regarding financial matters: (6) Make decisions together about creating a beautiful life, avoid conflicts and disagreements over money, and be moderately generous to those around you. |
| Love Line: | How to harmonise the couple: (18) Develop comprehensively, engage in deep conversations and maintain an optimistic mindset at all times. (12) Help and support each other, give love. (21) Travel together and explore new horizons as a pair. What is lacking: (18) There may be a lack of deep conversations and emotional intimacy. |
| Manifestation of the Couple, Parental Tasks: | The couple in society: (9) The couple does not publicly display their relationship too much, but society notes their intellectualism and deep bond. Children: (15) Children grow up surrounded by wealth, with parents providing the financial foundation for a luxurious life. Parenting: (6) A non-confrontational relationship with children characterised by harmony and moderate strictness. The children will be attractive and always look their best thanks to their parents. |
Conclusion
This cheat sheet will help you analyse the Compatibility Matrix with your partner and show the path to building a strong, lifelong relationship.
