Sexual Archetype – Calculation and Interpretation of the Destiny Matrix (4)
Sexual Archetype – Calculation and Interpretation of the Destiny Matrix. The Destiny Matrix is a tool that helps you uncover the light and dark sides of your personality – and much more besides. This article is dedicated to those who already have their Destiny Matrix, as we’ll show you how to calculate your sexual archetype. And for anyone wondering what that even means, we’ll bring you up to speed!

What Is an Archetype?
An archetype is a pattern or script that shapes how a person behaves throughout their life. It governs unconscious decision-making and worldview. The term is popular in psychology and refers to inner forces that determine our feelings and actions. For example, some people feel confident only when they’re constantly setting and achieving goals, and their motto is: “I see the goal – I see no obstacles!” That’s typical of the Seeker archetype.
In the context of a sexual archetype, however, it works a little differently. It describes a woman’s behavioural pattern in relation to men. Knowing your archetype can indicate which men you attract and how you should present yourself to draw in a successful, reliable and loyal partner.
Which Archetypes Exist?
The names of these archetypes have Greek origins and often correspond to ancient goddesses:
- Hestia — goddess of the hearth.
- Persephone — goddess of fertility.
- Hera — goddess of marriage and love.
- Athena — goddess of war and justice.
- Hecate — goddess of mystery and witchcraft.
- Artemis — goddess of chastity.
- Demeter — goddess of agriculture.
- Mnemosyne — goddess of memory and mind.
- Thetis — sea goddess and nymph.
Each archetype is characterised by its own behavioural model.
How to Determine Your Archetype – Calculating via the Destiny Matrix
To identify your sexual archetype, you first need to calculate your personal Destiny Matrix. You can do this in minutes using our free online Destiny Matrix calculator.
Once you’ve calculated it, analyse the Sacral chakra point (Svadhisthana) as it enters the Channel of Love (this appears in the karmic tail):
Then discover your archetype using our decoding guide:
- Hestia (9, 14 Arcana) — deeply introspective and strongly connected to the Universe. These women often explore spiritual practices and surround themselves with love to maintain happiness. A Hestia woman exudes warmth and wisdom, often taking charge. She tends to prefer peaceful solitude over socialising.
- Persephone (6, 12, 13 Arcana) — eternally youthful, they enjoy feeling vulnerable in a man’s arms and living carefree. Yet, like the myth, once grown they command their world and set the rules. This becomes especially apparent when they form a family and transform from a ‘victim’ into a ‘queen’ of their realm.
- Hera (3, 7, 15 Arcana) — proud and indomitable, she seeks a partner as powerful, grounded and successful as herself. Loyal wife and superb homemaker, she values the sanctity of marriage. Anger her, however, and she becomes a fierce force, the very opposite of her usual composed self.
- Athena (5, 16, 20 Arcana) — ruled by intellect rather than emotion, they may use men for their analytical strengths. Cool and calculating, capable of vindictiveness, they show no patience for losers; only a true victor stands at their side.
- Hecate (18, 21 Arcana) — drawn to mystery and danger, a Hecate woman is profoundly mystical. She wields great power, which can sometimes overwhelm her. Men find her tantalisingly enigmatic, though her emotional volatility and frequent relocations can prove off-putting.
- Artemis (1, 11, 4, 8 Arcana) — a born leader, she sees the goal and disregards obstacles. Her iron principles can make her seem austere. No archetype rivals her solidarity or her drive to fight for her rights. Friendships with intellectual, often older men appeal more to her than marriage.
- Demeter (19, 22 Arcana) — warm, open and nurturing, they excel as friends and mothers. Yet they can slip into a ‘mother hen’ role, treating their partner like a child. It’s vital they guard against over-protectiveness.
- Mnemosyne (2 Arcana) — enveloped in misty enigma, these women possess keen attention to detail and spiritual insight. Blessed with prodigious memory and a link to higher realms, they often anticipate events. Beware the shadow side: introversion, jealousy, insincerity and a tendency to monitor every move of their beloved.
- Thetis (17, 10 Arcana) — charismatic, alluring and affable, they know how to present themselves. Their beauty flourishes near water. Fiercely independent with a cosmic connection, they inspire and uplift. On the flip side, they may struggle with envy, self-doubt and excessive sensitivity.
As you can see, each woman embodies her own sexual archetype. Understanding these archetypes will help you navigate your relationships with men more effectively.