1. Why Can’t You Build a Relationship? Diagnosing the Issue Using the Destiny Matrix
Why Can’t You Build a Relationship? Diagnosing the Issue Using the Destiny Matrix
Relationships and love are important aspects of everyone’s life. Yet there are times when someone searches for their true love and finds nothing, or when a relationship only just begins before their partner walks away. But why does this happen? In this article, we will offer a solution to this problem using the Destiny Matrix system and Natalia Ladini’s ‘22 Arcana: Fate Correction’ method!
How to Calculate the Destiny Matrix? The Source of Relationship Problems According to the Destiny Matrix
You can calculate the Destiny Matrix manually, but we strongly recommend using our free Destiny Matrix calculator. Simply enter your name and date of birth in the required fields to obtain your completed matrix:
The source of relationship problems lies in the Karmic Tail zone. We have circled this point on the matrix with a red marker.
Decoding
Once you have calculated your Destiny Matrix, we recommend using our decoding guide to diagnose issues in building relationships:
- The Empress — in relationships, you display domineering behaviour, arrogance, a short temper, get “stuck” in one role, focus too much on appearance and clash with the women in your family;
- The Emperor — you tend to suppress those around you, expect everyone to obey, fear anything new and struggle to earn well;
- The Hierophant — you have excessive pride and lack self-confidence. You do not respect your partner’s opinions or family traditions and try in every way to remould them in your own image;
- The Lovers — doubts about whether you have chosen the right partner, maintaining contact with ex-partners during the relationship;
- The Chariot — you start competing with your partner, are constantly tense, relish arguments and strive to conquer the unattainable;
- Justice — you often judge people, are vengeful by nature, lie frequently and seek to completely control your partner, restricting their freedom;
- The Hermit — you have a fanatical attitude towards health and cleanliness, which ultimately leaves you with neither the time nor the energy for your partner. Moreover, you may also be overly fixated on your partner’s flaws;
- Wheel of Fortune — you show no initiative in relationships, treat your partner transactionally and act against destiny;
- Strength — you are overly self-absorbed and focused on work. Due to excessive workaholism, you display aggression towards your significant other and suppress them;
- The Hanged Man — self-sacrifice in relationships; full devotion to your partner leads to losing yourself. Subconsciously, you choose tyrannical partners;
- Death — you are stingy with emotions in relationships; your partner feels only coldness from you and no support. You may also compare your partner to exes;
- Temperance — you lack patience, you have a strong desire to get everything ‘here and now’. Inner imbalance prevents you from opening up to your partner and, as a result, you seek faults in them;
- Devil — you manipulate your partner both spiritually and physically, since you are only interested in your own pleasures. You need to learn to love and accept the shadow sides of others;
- Tower — you are drawn to ‘bad’ girls/boys. You are prone to perversion and promiscuous sexual relationships. You try to hide your insecurity with external attributes. You often feel the urge to break off a relationship only to come back together and rebuild it anew;
- The Star — you are overly fixated on problems, prone to self-criticism and not inclined to feel a sense of superiority over others;
- Moon — you have many fears about a negative outcome in relationships. Thoughts of separation and a partner’s infidelity manifest as reality;
- Sun — you ignore your partner’s feelings and emotions, using them only for selfish purposes. Stop pressuring your significant other and learn to take responsibility yourself;
- Judgement — you often have aggressive outbursts, your family exerts pressure on you, and you judge them without understanding. You are very stubborn and need to learn to find compromises with your partner;
- The World — do not strive to mould your loved one to the ‘golden standard’. To learn to accept others as they are, first learn to accept yourself;
- The Fool — you do not take relationships seriously; for you, it is just a game and entertainment.
Our decoding does not include Arcana I, ‘The Magician’, or Arcana II, ‘The High Priestess’, as these energies cannot appear in the calculation.
