{"id":72329,"date":"2024-03-17T15:59:19","date_gmt":"2024-03-17T13:59:19","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.destinynums.com\/1-pochemu-ne-poluchaetsya-postroit-otnosheniya-diagnostika-problemy-pri-pomoshhi-matriczy-sudby\/"},"modified":"2025-06-24T22:40:00","modified_gmt":"2025-06-24T19:40:00","slug":"why-cant-you-build-a-relationship","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.destinynums.com\/en\/why-cant-you-build-a-relationship\/","title":{"rendered":"1. Why Can’t You Build a Relationship? Diagnosing the Issue Using the Destiny Matrix"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

Why Can’t You Build a Relationship? Diagnosing the Issue Using the Destiny Matrix<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Relationships and love are important aspects of everyone\u2019s life. Yet there are times when someone searches for their true love and finds nothing, or when a relationship only just begins before their partner walks away. But why does this happen? In this article, we will offer a solution to this problem using the Destiny Matrix system and Natalia Ladini<\/a>\u2019s \u201822 Arcana: Fate Correction\u2019 method!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Why Can’t You Build a Relationship? Diagnosing the Issue Using the Destiny Matrix<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

How to Calculate the Destiny Matrix? The Source of Relationship Problems According to the Destiny Matrix<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

You can calculate the Destiny Matrix manually, but we strongly recommend using our free Destiny Matrix calculator<\/a>. Simply enter your name and date of birth in the required fields to obtain your completed matrix:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Why Can’t You Build a Relationship? Diagnosing the Issue Using the Destiny Matrix<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

The source of relationship problems lies in the Karmic Tail zone. We have circled this point on the matrix with a red marker.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Decoding<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Once you have calculated your Destiny Matrix, we recommend using our decoding guide to diagnose issues in building relationships:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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  • The Empress \u2014 in relationships, you display domineering behaviour, arrogance, a short temper, get \u201cstuck\u201d in one role, focus too much on appearance and clash with the women in your family;<\/li>\n\n\n\n
  • The Emperor \u2014 you tend to suppress those around you, expect everyone to obey, fear anything new and struggle to earn well;<\/li>\n\n\n\n
  • The Hierophant \u2014 you have excessive pride and lack self-confidence. You do not respect your partner\u2019s opinions or family traditions and try in every way to remould them in your own image;<\/li>\n\n\n\n
  • The Lovers \u2014 doubts about whether you have chosen the right partner, maintaining contact with ex-partners during the relationship;<\/li>\n\n\n\n
  • The Chariot \u2014 you start competing with your partner, are constantly tense, relish arguments and strive to conquer the unattainable;<\/li>\n\n\n\n
  • Justice \u2014 you often judge people, are vengeful by nature, lie frequently and seek to completely control your partner, restricting their freedom;<\/li>\n\n\n\n
  • The Hermit \u2014 you have a fanatical attitude towards health and cleanliness, which ultimately leaves you with neither the time nor the energy for your partner. Moreover, you may also be overly fixated on your partner\u2019s flaws;<\/li>\n\n\n\n
  • Wheel of Fortune \u2014 you show no initiative in relationships, treat your partner transactionally and act against destiny;<\/li>\n\n\n\n
  • Strength \u2014 you are overly self-absorbed and focused on work. Due to excessive workaholism, you display aggression towards your significant other and suppress them;<\/li>\n\n\n\n
  • The Hanged Man \u2014 self-sacrifice in relationships; full devotion to your partner leads to losing yourself. Subconsciously, you choose tyrannical partners;<\/li>\n\n\n\n
  • Death \u2014 you are stingy with emotions in relationships; your partner feels only coldness from you and no support. You may also compare your partner to exes;<\/li>\n\n\n\n
  • Temperance \u2014 you lack patience, you have a strong desire to get everything \u2018here and now\u2019. Inner imbalance prevents you from opening up to your partner and, as a result, you seek faults in them;<\/li>\n\n\n\n
  • Devil \u2014 you manipulate your partner both spiritually and physically, since you are only interested in your own pleasures. You need to learn to love and accept the shadow sides of others;<\/li>\n\n\n\n
  • Tower \u2014 you are drawn to \u2018bad\u2019 girls\/boys. You are prone to perversion and promiscuous sexual relationships. You try to hide your insecurity with external attributes. You often feel the urge to break off a relationship only to come back together and rebuild it anew;<\/li>\n\n\n\n
  • The Star \u2014 you are overly fixated on problems, prone to self-criticism and not inclined to feel a sense of superiority over others;<\/li>\n\n\n\n
  • Moon \u2014 you have many fears about a negative outcome in relationships. Thoughts of separation and a partner\u2019s infidelity manifest as reality;<\/li>\n\n\n\n
  • Sun \u2014 you ignore your partner\u2019s feelings and emotions, using them only for selfish purposes. Stop pressuring your significant other and learn to take responsibility yourself;<\/li>\n\n\n\n
  • Judgement \u2014 you often have aggressive outbursts, your family exerts pressure on you, and you judge them without understanding. You are very stubborn and need to learn to find compromises with your partner;<\/li>\n\n\n\n
  • The World \u2014 do not strive to mould your loved one to the \u2018golden standard\u2019. To learn to accept others as they are, first learn to accept yourself;<\/li>\n\n\n\n
  • The Fool \u2014 you do not take relationships seriously; for you, it is just a game and entertainment.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n

    Our decoding does not include Arcana I, \u2018The Magician\u2019, or Arcana II, \u2018The High Priestess\u2019, as these energies cannot appear in the calculation.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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